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Sexuality in relationships

| So I'm constantly sexually frustrated due to my boyfriend never really being willing to have sex with me. Normal masturbation doesn't help and he won't budge


| advice plz


| Tough spot. No matter what they say a good chunk of an amorous relationship involves sex. I cant imagine loving someone without wanting to get lewd and dirty too.
If it continues like this Id advise you find someone else or you will feel constantly incomplete and lacking.


| Has he ever given a reason?


| spending too much time together can make that happen. People like rare things so be unavailable for a while to catch interest again


| Rape him.


| >>159059 it's always "I'm not in the mood" or "We'll do it when I feel like it". The thing is he never feels like it

>>158984 I completely love him to death, I can overlook it I just wish he'd be more sexually active



| He's probably cheating on you. Start stalking him.

Or you could be reasonable and.. you know, talk to your partner about your sexual frustration?


| be sexier to him, cosplay his fav anime characters, or give him libido enhancing foods (cuz sometime it is more biological)


| if all fails, hug his lower half, cry and start calling him "master" (or onichaan) and tell him that youve been naughty and beg him to punish you


| I've got the opposite problem, OP. My girlfriend and I fuck all the time. Too much. Our responsibilities are piling up.

Be warned.


| Why women are such whores who always think of dick? Maybe he's got ascended and chose a way of asexuality. You plebean vagnas won't understand. It's like nofap, but on completely new level.


| OP is a slutty whore


| No, it's not a slutty thing to wanting sex. I'd say, go do some serious talk to him. No, not just "wanna do it today?" Start the conversation with "I have a problem, mind listening to it?"


| Tell him about your feelings, if he won't respond, he don't love so much as you do.


| >>159439 Thank you, will try


| >>159439 Update from before

he just said he's uncomfortable with his ability and body due to never having a sexual partner

Thought you might wanna know


| >>160323 He has to realise it is not a pornstar you are asking him to be. Keep it up trying OP. You need to make him comfortable with the idea that it is the brain the most powerful sexual organ. Offer playful deals to him, like when he is chilling or reading, not to mind you play with his dick and lick it if you like. All he has to do is pretend you are not there. Be cheerful about it. He needs to get rid of that 'what the fuck do I do now' sense of panic.


| >>160331 We both agreed we'd work on his confidence and body image, again thanks!!


| Hope you have good time!


| >>159268 does he maybe lack confidence in his dick size?


| >>160930 I believe it is more complex than that. His minds gets blocked from the idea of intimacy. He needs to be pulled out of that kind of anxiety and OP is the most suitable person to do that as someone who has genuine feelings in him.


| >>158958
Maybe you are just ugly \_('- ')_/


| >>160908 yay time to get some fuck


| >>160930 he's actually decently sized, around 18cm

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