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Seeking Dom Advice
| I'm completely aware that this isn't the greatest place to ask, but nothing ventured, nothing gained. I'm also doing my own research and I plan on communicating as much as I can with the girl.
I want to see if I can find any people with more experience or relatable info here. All serious replies are much appreciated.
| Dont ask a dom, look a for a zaku!
| Most of the subs I've been with enjoyed getting stepped on so go try that and see how it goes my dude
| But yano go slow and build it up whatnot
| I will show you dawae
| Say we have found da kween
| You should respect her. Dont treat her like the previous girls
| I only have a little experience myself, and it was all platonic play, at that. In short, communicating well and planning ahead trumps pretty much all other advice out there. If it's early in your relationship, I'd also advise refraining from roleplay until you know each other better.
| I would guess this isn't actually the worst place to ask if I were to guess.
Now the really important thing to note is that you want to assert your authority. If you're constantly hesitating because you aren't too sure if she'll like something, that makes you look like a weak dom and means you haven't communicated enough beforehand.
| It's all a trust and communication thing. You figure out what your limits are as a couple, and explore the bedroom within them! Don't be afraid to do stuff that was deemed acceptable, that'd make you super boring!
| communication is key
| Listen to her. Remember that you're being a dom, not a sadist.
| Thanks everyone. It's really nice to have your support and encouragement. I'll be doing my best.
-OP
| My advice is that you aren't doing it for you, it's for her. It's really easy to accidentally hurt someone in your role as dom, and it goes without saying that your role shouldn't extend to being a misogynist or being abusive outside of what you do in the bedroom. She's probably looking to get exited, not be controlled.
| We went on our first date tonight. She's so damn cute it hurts and our date was pure and fun. She really brings out my paternal side, which I suppose is a good thing. We're going out again soon. Thanks again everyone. Finding confidence from within is always the best, but getting some from others never hurts.
-OP
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| I'm 24, male, and I've had many sexual partners (all female.) I haven't been consistently active for the last few years because reasons.
However, a few months ago I met this beautiful bombshell and we started talking. She is 18. Fast forward to now and we're texting each other and seeing each other more often.
She admitted to being a Sub/little. I've always been on the Dom side so this is fine, but I've been out of the game for a while.
Any tips for being a respectable Dom?