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My favourite lilim is going nuts what do D//X
| >>>CONT makin an effort to open up.
So he seemed ncie & I wanted to help the new guy out so I started chatting him up often and hanging out with him.
I swear we had something going on over the last couple months. The looks the laughs we always covered for each other etc.
I was honstly holding out for our summer break to hang out with him 1on1 but he absolutely had to go see his family which was a fucking bummer but okay
shit I've gotta get back to work FML
| Still at work but I just need to get this off my chest.
The thing is after coming back from the summer break it's like this guy had a bad personality override job or something.
Before he was shy but he was really tender and considerate now he's outright cold. All he does is overwork himself doing extra hours he doesn't come with us anymore or anything.
If it was just that he doesn't like me anymore well that's sad but I can take it. But it's not just that. It's like he's >>>CONT
| >>>CONT lost the joy in life. He's got this horrible glazed look on his face all the time except when he's handling customers and just barely.
When I asked him how his summer vacation went everything seemed fine but he's almost like a different person.
I've only seen him being social at all with a couple of guys from another department and they were talking about lilim frame measures muscle upgrades and facial customizations. It's clear they were talking about enhancements>>>CONT
| >>>CONT but I don't really get what for or why the sudden interest and together with his attitude change is almost scary.
I feel like there's something eating away at him but he's walled me and everybody else off.
I don't think he's up to anything dangerous but I just don't know him anymore. It's disheartening. I felt so comfortable around him before but now it's like he's angry at the whole world and trying bad to keep it bottled inside.
What can I do to reach to him again?
| it might be something he intentionally did to himself. Sometimes it's easier to just shut off your emotional processors and be a painless drone. ngl ive been debating doing that myself ;_;
| >>407704 I don't really know how that goes but if it was that I bet he'd look happier.
Why tamper with your emotional processing just to be miserable???
I swear he's not okay there's something wrong with him I want to help him because I care for him but I just don't know how to approach the issue
before these vacations I could cheer him up with jokes or memes or gossip but right now anything I throw at him just sinks with no effect like he was a black hole
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| >>407728
you might be misinterpreting feeling nothing as feeling miserable. It's hard for an observer to tell the difference sometimes, especially if they're not lilim.
| >>407734
Well you could be right with that. I'm no lilim or lilim expert. I like lilim but I just see them as mechanical people.
Why would he do such a thing? Are there any telltale signs I could look for to make sure he's just turned off his emotions?
Even if its that he must have had some reason to shut down his feelings and it can't be anything good.
As I said before if he likes or me or not is secondary I want to help him anyways
| >>407704
Uh actually would you mind explaining why would you do such a thing?
I wouldn't want anyone to go through what this ... friend is going through whatever it is.
Have a hug please :_)
| >>407747
Because sometimes numbing yourself is the only way to make life suck slightly less, and if you're a lilim and can just flip the figurative switch to turn that part of yourself off it's a hell of a lot cheaper than numbing yourself with drugs lol
>>407754
man I got dumped by a fucking vending machine. My love life is cursed or something and I'm tired of waking up alone every morning ;_;
| >>407773
>the only way to make life suck slightly less
... now I feel dumb as fuck ... of course that's why you'd do it ...
>My love life is cursed or something
Uh... I still have a huge crush on this boy lil u know? Do you want a new friend though?
Loads of people are into lilim. You usually date vending machines? Maybe it's just a bad experience. Why were you dumped? I can imagine a relationship with a vending machine can be difficult to manage but maybe different for lilim.
| Did you ask him about his family? Maybe something happened and he's trying to bottle it up.
| >>407838
Yes I did. About the first thing I did when I saw him again even though we had been texting a bit the whole time. Everything seemed fine he looked almost normal that day just kind of tired. If anything fishy happened during his stay with them he sure isn't telling but I didn't notice anything weird.
Maybe I should ask again? but I'm afraid he'll just brush me off...
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| Ok first of all with nuts I don't mean killin spree or breaking things or glitchin out.
There's this super cute boy lil where I work in a posh apparel retail. Total clank but he's really attentive to custemers even if he's shy and to staff too. He's always around to lend anybody a hand & also comes with the rest of us when we go out for a drink or dinner or whatever.
He started working with us about 8 months ago and he was very very shy at start but you coud tell he was>>>CONT