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Alone in Feb14. Again.
| You'll be f8ne
| Until you f8nd yourself 7 years later since you gave up on trying to find someone special, on your bed during Valentine's day, aga8n, eating chocolate and wonder8ng if the girl next door is gonna be noisy with her bf during the night.
| >>150618
The best advice you can receive is: don't search for a gf, just make new friends, go to know people, everywhere you can. Never expect anything that isn't a friend and surround yourself of nice people.
If your other half will come, it will be unexpected, trying too hard is a thing that tend to take apart people.
You don't need a gf, you need a friend, someone to talk with. Sex is overrated anyway.
| Being alone isn't bad. Unless you really like someone, don't try getting someone. Having a gf/bf just because your friends have one is just stupid.
| The thing is, I d8d have someone like that. She lived in another country, and we would chat frequently about anything and nothing. I knew I liked her, but given the s8tuation, i was aware nothing would "happen" between us. Until one day she said she liked me and, not know8ng what to do, I went crazy. I messaged her everyday and sent "gmornin" and "gnight" texts and all of that. That went on for like a month. But she grew tired of me and stopped answer8ng or even reading my texts.
| I felt devastated and ever since then I cannot f8nd a reason why that happened. Maybe there's someth8ng wrong with me, in which case i would love to know what is 8t.
| >>150638
I felt the same in high school, but time passes and the problem disappear.
Just always be you and make friends, be nice and everything will be fine.
| sometimes i press the 8 instead of the i on my phone keyboard. they're close on the layout
| I wonder 8f being yourself really helps with knowing the right people. I mean, I live with myself and cannot see anyone l8king the way I live and do th8ngs
| >>150655
You need to accept yourself before others do. I know it sounds a stupid idea, but you have control only on your body/life, the "others" are always out of our league. Just find happiness in what you are/do, remember that we live once and this is fantastic.
Every second on this floating mass of dirt is unique and fantastic.
Don't be discouraged, it's useless. Enjoy what you have, improve who you are.
Others are not your problem, keep them out.
| >>150666
With keep 'em out I didn't mean that you must isolate yourself, just don't compare what you want to be with what they are.
Everyone has problems, small or big, but if we are here now, on an obscure textboard based on a videogame, venting, this mean that we can improve, become better persons. We have the possibility.
A note, being lazy doesn't help, change yourself and don't mind the rest, be the person you aspire to be, and pass the rest of your life with all of us.
| I gotta say, I'm very grateful about you all and your k8nd comments. Changing yourself is definitely not an easy task, but I hope I can keep my motivat8on to better myself and, with luck, eventually find someone 'special'. Gonna stick around cause this board is someth8ng else and also to hopefully not forget the advice you have given me. Thanks again for read8ng this, and I wish you ppl a happy day, night or w/e. Thanks.
| Go to more sleepovers, it will dramatically improve your chances.
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| 3 days ago, I saw one of my friends be8ng surprised by his gf. She put a chocolate in her mouth and then k8ssed him. Not the most orig8nal way to give chocolate, but that's beside the point. I then said to one of my other fr8ends "-makes you kinda jealous doesn't it?-" to wh8ch he answered "-not really, I have a bf-". I didn't know that. In fact, I d8dn't know every single one of my friends had a couple. And I'm here, alone. Will my time come, ever?
Being alone doesn't sound so bad